Context, I’m 19M and have gone to 12 kpop concerts, 8 BG and 4 GG, I know guys have energy at concerts, I’ve been to Playboi Carti, Lil Uzi, and Travis Scott and they get down. But whenever I go to kpop concerts, guys don’t have the same energy present. It kinda kills my mood cuz I’m the only one vibing and singing the lyrics and doing the fanchants if i know them. The girls are cool to be with, if one pixel of Bangchan or Beomgyu shows up on screen the girls go wild. Johnny shows his abs? Girls go wild.

Those 4 girl groups were Itzy, NMIXX, Dreamcatcher, and IVE and the guys at the shows just don’t show energy or show some signs of having fun. I’m not saying they’re statutes but it’s like they don’t know how to express themselves. Also whenever I ask them about kpop groups they just say they like this group and Twice. No hate but it’s kinda hard to talk about kpop, we do talk about other guy things like sports or cars.

NCT, Xikers, Enhypen, Stray Kids, Ateez, Tomorrow by Together, Seventeen, etc. fan girls know how to get down! They’re always handing out freebies or dressing to the nines. They’re so pretty i kinda get nervous to talk them. Can’t say the same about the guys. If I want talk i-land lore or skzoo lore the homies don’t understand :((

tldr; cmon guys, we’re kinda lacking 😭😭